Will Smith's Tips For a Divorce-Free Marriage

by Rosa Hayes:

The famous actor and singer Will Smith has a very peculiar philosophy when it comes to divorce. Will Smith has been married to Jada Pinkett-Smith for over 10 years now, which is outstanding for Hollywood relationships that usually don't even make it to the seven-year itch.

Recently on the Ellen DeGeneres show Ellen asked Smith how his relationship had lasted so long. Smith's reply was that divorce is just not an option and that there has been so many options for people in Hollywood when it comes to marriage that he and his wife has just removed all of the other options including divorce, as reported by People.

My husband and I love Will Smith's perspective on marriage and divorce. There are certain things that would have you screaming at people to get a divorce but in reality everything can be compromised. I plan to work my marriage the Will Smith way and just say no to divorce.

My dad had always said that a perfect marriage is when you don't go to bed angry. I feel that he was right and I have used this through my marriage to my husband. I have been married twice but the first one ended because of a serious drinking problem and abuse that my then spouse had. My second marriage is one that I truly had time to grow up around and to see that not all things are going to go the way that I want them too.

Will Smith's marriage has worked because they have refused to let it end. There are some reasons that I believe is cause for a divorce but I also truly believe that if you both love each other then anything can be worked out.

The first step in working out your marriage is to always talk and be open with one another. Once one of you stops to communicate with the other, the marriage will slowly disintegrate. Even if things get heated take a breath and start over again.

The second step to making your marriage work is to not argue in front of the kids and to talk at a whisper. Have you ever been in a place and someone starts to whisper? If someone whispers pretty soon everyone around them will begin to whisper. Whispering makes you control your tone and you are less likely to continue to be heated.

The third step is to always discuss everything right down to the money. I discuss everything with my spouse including what we will have for dinner. We include each other as a family and therefore our family makes the decisions to what goes on. We don't always agree with each other but we take the time to listen and to understand and then we compromise.

The fourth step to making your marriage last is to never bring up the past. The past is often brought up when people are angry. Bringing up the past leaves an open door for them to do the same to you and it will only lead to trouble. Humans make mistakes even when they sometimes don't mean too and the past should be left alone.

The fifth step that I can offer you is to always tell the other person that you love them at least once a day. Saying I love you is sometimes not said enough and everyone needs to know that they are loved. When you don't say it it can make the other person feel as though you don't love them.

Everything that you do in your marriage will determine if you end up in a divorce. Will Smith has made up his mind on what he wants his marriage to be and I have made up mine.

Will Smith & Charlize Theron Star in Hancock

For the comedy lovers out there searching for a summer flick, "Hancock," starring Will Smith, is like the way to go. "Hancock" is a parody on the infamous "Spiderman" quote, "With great power comes great responsibility." Smith plays a careless, edgy, sarcastic superhero who saves lives -- but not without leaving a mass amount of chaos in his wake. After saving the life of a P.R. executive -- played by Jason Bateman -- this superhero begins to realize that maybe his feelings are stronger than he thinks. For those still not convinced, Charlize Theron will also be appearing in the movie, which is set to hit theatres on July 2.

For more information, check out http://www.sonypictures.com/movies/hancock.

Will Smith : Miami | Video | Lyrics

Verse 1: Will Smith

Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah
Miami, uh, uh
Southbeach, bringin the heat, uh
Haha, can y'all feel that
Can y'all feel that
Jig it out, uh

Here I am in the place where I come let go
Miami the base and the sunset glow
Everyday like a mardi gras, everybody party all day
No work all play, okay
So we sip a little something, lay to rest the spill
Me an Charlie at the bar runnin up a high bill
Nothin less than ill, when we dress to kill
Everytime the ladies pass, they be like (Hi Will)
Can y'all feel me, all ages and races
Real sweet faces
Every different nation, Spanish, Hatian, Indian, Jamaican
Black, White, Cuban, and Asian
I only came for two days of playing
But everytime I come I always wind up stayin
This the type of town I could spend a few days in
Miami the city that keeps the roof blazin

Chorus:

Party in the city where the heat is on
All night, on the beach till the break of dawn
Welcome to Miami
Buenvenidos a Miami
Bouncin in the club where the heat is on
All night, on the beach till the break of dawn
I'm goin to Miami
Welcome to Miami

Verse 2: Will Smith

Yo I heard the rainstorms ain't nothin to mess with
But I can't feel a drip on the strip, it's a trip
Ladies half-dressed, fully equipped
And they be screamin out, (Will we loved your last hit)
So I'm thinkin I'ma scoot me somethin hot
In this south-sea merengue melting pot
Hottest club in the city, and it's right on the beach
Temperature get to ya, it's about to reach
Five-hundred degrees
In the carribean seas, with the hot mommies
Screamin (Aii poppy)
Everytime I come to town, they be spottin me
In the drop Bentley, ain't no stoppin me
So, cash in your door
We flow to this fashion show
Pound for pound anywhere you go
Yo, ain't no city in the world like this
An if you ask how I know I gots ta plead the fifth

Chorus

Verse 3: Will Smith

Don't get me wrong, Chi-town got it goin on
An New York is the city that we know don't sleep
An we all know that L.A. and Philly stay jiggy
But on the sneak, Miami bringin heat for real
Y'all don't understand
I never seen so many Dominican women with cinnimon tans
Mierda, this is the plan
Take a walk on the beach, draw a heart in the sand
Gimmie your hand
Damn, you look sexy
Let's go to my yacht, in the West Keys
Ride my jet-skis, loungin in the palm trees
Cause you gotta have cheese for the summerhouse piece on South Beach
Water so clear, you can see to the bottom
Hundred-thousand dollar cars, e'ybody got em
Ain't no surprise in the club to see Sly, Stallone
Miami, my second home

Chorus to fade

Will Smith To Host Nelson Mandela's 90th Birthday Party

Nelson Mandela has asked the Hollywood star Will Smith to host his 90th birthday concert in London this summer.

Just in case, you don't know who Nelson Mandela is, he's the former President of South Africa, the first to be elected in fully representative democratic elections. Before his presidency, Mandela was an anti-apartheid activist and leader of the African National Congress and its armed wing Umkhonto we Sizwe. He spent 27 years in prison for crimes related to the struggle against apartheid.

Internationally recognized asa symbol of freedom and equality, Mandela has received more than one hundred awards over four decades, most notably the Nobel Peace Prize in 1993.

Apparently, Mandela is a great fan of Will Smith. Here's a picture of him doing the "fresh prince" with Beyonce Knowles!



Oh yeah, Will is also reported to be a fan of Mr. Mandela.

Will Smith For President

Will Smith loves wearing those "Men In Black" suits so much, that he's decided to run for President.

Last year the Democrat supporter, Smith revealed his political aspirations, saying: "I always wanted to be the first black president but Barack Obama stole my idea. That's OK with me. Barack can go first and then I'll take my turn."

Obama has even contacted Smith to play him on a movie about his life. Apparently, having the same ears is all it takes to play Obama!

Hey I'd vote for Will Smith. On the other, I'd even vote for Arnold Schwarzenegger. Don't laugh, your mama voted for Ronald Reagan!!!

Will Smith: Men In Black | Video | Lyrics

Hohh

Here come the men in black
Its the mibs uh here come the mibs
Here come the men in black men in black
They wont let you remember

Nah nah nah
The good guys dress in black remember that
Just in case we ever face to face and make contact
The title held by me mib
Means what you think you saw you did not see
So dont blink be what was there is now gone
The black suits with the black ray bans on
Walk in shadow move in silence
Guard against extra terrestrial violence
But yo we aint on no government list
We straight dont exist no names and no fingerprints
Saw somethin strange watch your back
Cause you never quite now where the mibs is at
Uh eh

Here come the men in black men in black
Galaxy defenders oho oho oho
Here come the men in black men in black
They wont let you remember

Aha aha
Now from the deepest of the darkest night
On the horizon bright light enters sight tight
Camaras zoom on the impending doom
But then like boom black suits fill the room up
With the quickness talk with the witnesses
Hypnotizer neuralizer
Vivid memories turn to fantasies
Aint no mibs can I please
Do what we say thats the way we kick it
Dya know what I mean
I see my noisy cricket get wicked on ya
Were your first last and only line of defense
Against the worst scum of the universe
So dont fear us cheer us
If you ever get near us dont jeer us were fearless
Mibs freezin up all the flack
Whats that stand for men in black
Uh eh

The men in black
The men in black

Let me see ya just bounce it with me
Just bounce with me
Just bounce it with me
Come on let me see ya just slide with me
Just slide with me
Just slide with me
Come on let me see ya take a walk with me
Just walk with me
Take a walk with me
Come on and make your neck work
Now freeze

Ohhhhhoh

Here come the men in black men in black
Galaxy defenders ohh ooohh
Here come the men in black men in black
They wont let you remember oh nohh

Alright check it
Let me tell you this in closing
I know we might seem imposing
But trust me if we ever show in your section
Believe me its for your own protection
Cause we see things that you need not see
And we be places that you need not be
So go on with your life
Forget that roswell crap
Show love to the black suit cause
Thats the men in
Thats the men in

Here come the men in black here they come
Galaxy defenders galaxy defenders
Here come the men in black oho here they come
They wont let you remember wont let you remember

Here come the men in black ohh here they come
Galaxy defenders oho oho oho
Here come the men in black
They wont let you remember